Showing posts with label tea party. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tea party. Show all posts

Saturday, February 6, 2016

tea party! 'twas delightful, dahling!


IT'S ALWAYS TEA TIME- the mad hatter

why, sometimes i've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast- the queen

the big day finally arrived! i've mentioned it in a previous post, nafia sent an invitation to her tea party to celebrate her birthday-themed: nafia in wonderland. i knew from the moment i got the invitation (actually before, because she had mentioned it), that i was going. i've gone to eat at a little tea room in branson, with my dear friend laura, but we didn't dress the part, we just enjoyed the ambiance and conversation...this was different. this was an all-out, dress-up event. which is why i went through quite the process to get myself together! one.piece.at.a.time. (in fact, i got the gloves just this morning!)

it's not that i don't like wearing dresses...it's just that i prefer to wear casual clothing. this time though, it was actually fun to dress up. it was especially fun, because it was nafia's 'dream-party,' and i knew it would mean a lot to her.

i put the address into my phone, and the first pass, i ended up at an empty warehouse just north of the correct place...i went back, looked up the address and tried it again-had to do a little circle around the interstate, and i STILL passed it the second time, but i just parked in the store area next to it, and walked on over. i'm sure the people at golfsmith and el fenix thought i was a little out of place-no worries, i'm confident enough to pull it off!

i got to hang out with some of the coolest people in dallas today! it is always good to see school friends outside of the four walls! and i absolutely loved meeting and laughing with her friends and cousins of whom she has spoken often. putting faces and personalities with names is my favorite! i may not have found the most tea bags around the room, but we did fairly well at the second game, which was a mixture of charades/taboo/win-lose-or draw. #teameffort (cate is an amazing guesser! if we ever have any similar kind of game at school, i'm call dibs on cate!) seriously, though, it was a lot of fun-we laughed and i hope it was all that nafia envisioned!
tea party time!
strike a pose with a prop! 
it's a potion...wonderland potion! 
the finger sandwiches and desserts were delectable!
and the tea selections were delish!


nafia-truly a tea party diva! #classact
so, there you have it, i can dress up when the occasion is right!
 everything about today was fun- the sweetest little gift bag-tea selection in a teacup with a personal note-so thoughtful! loved today!

to add to the day, i stopped by my mailbox this morning, and i was so happy that my envelope had arrived! this is a very special envelope because it has what i requested from my mom and dad a couple of weeks ago. if you recall, i mentioned it here. so...i can't really tell you much about it right now, but i will, in time. this one will have to wait until we have a girls night to share first. suffice it to say, it meant a lot to me!
i'm really excited for my friends to receive theirs, because i know it will be special to them! 
i am hoping that the weather is nice tomorrow, because i'd like to get out and try my discs-i finally put them in my car! now i just want to throw them around in an open field and get a feel for how they fly!

well, it's a wrap-full day, fun day, enjoyable #nafiainwonderland
julie

Monday, January 18, 2016

once you're out...might as well get the most out of your day!

i finished my marathon with return of the king-always a great ending! and i got a text from nicolette, one of my dear friends here in dallas, simply asking if i wanted to go to half price books later. and then another text suggesting a time close to lunch, so that we could grab lunch. then it was pushed back a bit, and yet another suggestion to drop donations off at goodwill. so, knowing i had plenty of items i wanted to get out of my place, i was scurrying around, trying to get a bunch of it boxed up!

before i knew it, noon had arrived, so i drove over, and transferred my boxes to her car. then we took off for goodwill to drop it all off. after that, we made our way up belt line toward lunch. i am terrible at making the choices for dining...but i hadn't had fajitas in awhile, and it had also been a bit since i'd had steak, thus it was that as we got closer, we ended up at chuy's. because everyone loves chuy's, and she'd never tried it.

after eating the chips, salsa and guacamole, the fajitas were brought out, and i ate half of mine-i always go straight for the hot plate, meat and veggies. nicolette went for the beans and rice first, which was to my benefit, because by the time we were finished, she hadn't eaten much of the fajita portion, and she really doesn't do left-overs, so i pretty much brought home a full plate of fajitas. thanks nicolette! and then we were off to 1/2 price books-no particular plan in mind, except to get over to the children's books and find some books for her students. when i was in the classroom, i spent so much money at half-price books!! most of my mentor books for writing came from this one! unfortunately they did not have the hobbit movies, which upon second thought, i figured it would be better to purchase them new (no sense spending money on something that might skip, or be defective, right? especially if you are ready to watch them in the moment) i also had a couple of food items that i needed to purchase, so we stopped at sprouts, and purchased produce-then took the party to walmart, because there were a couple of items that made more sense to purchase there (including floss for me!)

we took our food-stuffs back to put it away, and then maybe chocolate shakes were calling, and one of the best places to get a good chocolate shake just happens to be twisted root. every time i go over there now, i look at the silos and think about climbing. i haven't yet, because this facility requires at least two, no auto/ self-belays. i'd txtd emmy earlier that morning about setting up some times to go climbing, because i know that's her thing! so once her husband is back from his trip, we may be able to get in a climbing date-perhaps a routine. so when we passed by, i mentioned it again to nicolette, because i love to share the things i love! hopefully the heights thing will be less daunting than imagined. one of the things they do at this wall is train for serious outdoor climbing, and they set up trips-so i have that in the back of my head brewing. but back to twisted root-the shakes-filling and always delicious!
Inside Climbing Gym
climbing orientation inside 
on the way there, nicolette had mentioned that twisted root had a record shop connected to it, or right next door. i'd never noticed. so we walked around the corner to check it out...only there was NOTHING. not.a.thing. she swore up and down and was completely dumbfounded and mystified, because it was there earlier this summer...at that point, there was a need to look them up and find out if she was indeed crazy, or something had happened to the joint. well, i am happy to announce that we will not be having to commit her to a psych ward, dead wax records was indeed a record shop housed next to twisted root since 2014, and they have opted to not renew their lease, and are currently looking for a new spot to set up shop. you can find their page on facebook here.

upon finding that she was not crazy, we were able to move forward. next stop: the mall- time to look for hats for the tea party, unfortunately this is not the time of year for tea party hats. on the way there, i'd brought up the possibility that i could just get a full rabbit outfit and show up as the rabbit, with the clock...and that idea was pretty much shot down with a, "if you did that, no joke, i would pretend i didn't know you-for real." i take the threat seriously, because i will need to have someone there who will talk to me, sooo.... we stopped into a couple of different stores, where it made sense to look, and didn't find what we were looking for...keep looking. i may  have to look to amazon for some help...we stopped at trader joe's-the new one in addison, and it's a tiny box. the only thing i was really interested in finding was the beet hummus-found it, thanks to mel for sharing that it could be found there! as wonderful as it is, some people just can't get past the color-which to me is part of the intrigue!

 if i'd thought it out better, i would have worn appropriate attire-but dressed as i was, we ended up deciding to go check out some places around the area that she'd not seen yet-possible places to run/walk/play. i knew of one up on josey that i see every time i head up to the home depot, and if you remember the gentleman from lowe's who helped me with my plywood, had mentioned a trail nearby. the best part was when i mentioned the park i was familiar with, i asked if she'd played frisbee golf, and her response was unexpected, but a tad bit exciting: she laughed and said that frisbee golf was something that her family does, and she reached around into the back seat and retrieved three discs-LOVE IT!! i'd seen some people playing when i was in mo, but i haven't played since i worked at kanakuk, and we had a frisbee golf day with our volleyball group...only we didn't really play, it was more of a race and a lot of cheating, so i don't even know the rules or exactly what is involved. when it warms up a little, this could be a fun pass-time to partake in every once in awhile; a great boredom buster!

we continued on up and around carrolton where we found the aforementioned trail, and it really was a beautiful area-with a small lake/large pond...i don't know, what really is the difference? how big can a pond be/how small can a lake be before you call it something else?! anyhoo, as we went a bit further north, we passed by my 2nd family's neighborhood and a pang in my heart-i really need to get over to visit with the harmon's more often, because i absolutely adore them, and i have missed them. note: emmy, the gal i mentioned earlier in regards to climbing, is their daughter. funny how i still think of her back as a kamper and counselor...she has grown into an adult-mother and wife, and i am SO PROUD of her! wow, did we ever go through some interesting/fun/hard/entertaining times together!! #thekamplife. we passed by the nature preserve up that way, and about that point, nicolette said, "i want to see the stadium." i looked over at her and said, "the dallas cowboys stadium?" "yep" and so, off we went; as we were making our way south, there was a popeye's off to the left, and nicolette got a little excited and said to keep my eyes open, because if we saw another one, we would stop for biscuits! (good call), so from that moment on, i was pretty much distracted in my search for a popeye's! at this point, i should mention that i am not the best co-pilot...i feel that i have been better in the past, i need to continue to work on this...which means more drives, please...perhaps a road trip here or there-this would help me to hone my skills...just sayin'.

so we got there without much ado- passed the rangers stadium-which is beautiful; baseball season is coming! i think of tim every time i think of baseball, as he is one of the biggest baseball fans i know...um, right up there with heather, my softball-coaching-former roommate who was one of my kamp staples for the longest time! then we got around the building to the att stadium, and it is certainly huge! so check that off the list-now that i think about it, i don't think i'd been out here either since it's been in use. so as we left, i think we came to a highway we hadn't previously been on, and my phone was dying, so i got us back on the interstate, and when we got closer and were going past downtown, none of the buildings looked familiar. hmm..were we going around some back way that i was unfamiliar with? seriously, NONE of it looked familiar. and nicolette was saying, "yeah, none of this looks familiar, you sure?" nope. i didn't see any of the familiar landmarks, and then we saw the tcu and ft worth zoo signs...yep. i need to get to know my stars, and bring the astrolabe next time...had it been daytime, i would've been great because i would've been able to see the sun, and i would have know what direction we were going. night time is like being thrown into a swirling pool of water and not knowing which way is up! no worries, something new to see! we now know where the ft worth zoo is, and saw the tcu campus-in part..and the cutest little pancake house, which must be visited!

so, i was trying to use yelp on my phone to find popeye's, and it gave me an address-which was down the road that nicolette had already chosen, as most popeye's are located in "sketchy parts of town," so i hear. again, phone nearing end of battery life, i retried, and it gave me yet another address...we found the interstate again, and i had seconds to decide which way to go (again, enter astrolabe, star knowledge, or a phone that actually works) "julie, seriously, you have half a second, make a call!" "take this exit!" (which she'd pointed out earlier, i'm pretty sure i say it wrong. i should say take this on-ramp, or get on the interstate here) so we did, and i was hoping beyond hope that i'd made the right decision-nicolette had been so patient up to this point-and fortunately, yes, we were indeed headed in the right direction, AAAANNNND, there was a popeye's sign that caught nicolette's eye, which surprised me that she saw the sign before i did, as she was driving and all-so we exited and when we actually ordered it took forever long! and by forever long, i had time to get out of the car, go in and use the restroom, and get back into the car before we even pulled up to the window! typical. but totally worth it-got our fix-that should last for awhile. and then, of course, we ran into traffic coming back up i35...figures.

so why the play-by-play? because as you know, that's what i do-i love fun days. so..while running errands and driving around may not sound monumental, for me, it was a perfect day! when i have the opportunity to spend time with friends, i will take it every single time, because hanging out normally leads to conversation. conversation almost always leads to interesting stories and better understanding, and this was no exception. nicolette challenges me, and often makes me think about things through a different lens-and she probably doesn't even realize that she does. it's usually nothing major, but it's good for me.  i appreciate the friends i have chosen to surround myself with and those who have chosen to remain in contact, because as i think about each of those in my inner circle, and even my secondary circle, i believe they each play a role in helping develop who i am. relationships help shape us...that's why they are so important. that's why i will drop everything to invest in them when the opportunity arises.

no pics-sorry...i should've gotten some-at the stadium...at popeye's...at tcu...need to work on my pic-game.

hope your long weekend was fabulous-and relaxing!
julie

Saturday, January 16, 2016

lotr marathon; may our adventures not be our own

weekends, ahhh, to sleep in...only sleeping in for this teacher/educator is still early. this morning, from the beginning of my walk to the end, i believe the weather had dropped about 10 degrees, because it certainly was cold! so after some eggs, bacon and coffee (with a paleo creamer-date), i was ready to get some stuff done, only it was later than i thought.

i got over to sports authority and was able to find some shorts and tanks that will serve me well for spring break, but i didn't find a suit that would work for me, so that's still on the to-do list, suggestions welcome. next stop-verizon to check into the possibility of getting a new phone. they are not my current carrier, but i know verizon works at mom and dad's, and pretty much everywhere else. when i mentioned that i had a samsung and was considering an iphone, the two who were standing there were like, WHY?! and we had a quick discussion, during which i was convinced that my original choice, getting the samsung in the first place, was probably a good choice, it's just time to upgrade to a newer model, because it truly does have all of the functionality that i need. but i am going to look where i got my last one, and see if i can retain a similar plan.

sometimes i get caught up in the whole material-thing, and most of my friends have iphones, so why don't i? but ya know what...i need to be a better steward of my money.

another thing that i did not accomplish today was to get my tea party outfit together-and that's just around the corner. this is not something i feel comfortable looking for by myself- i am no fashion expert!! i may head up to oklahoma this upcoming weekend or next and just go shopping up there--maybe i can get bmayes to be my personal fashion consultant for the day! i laugh to think of us shopping for the trappings of a tea-party outfit. smile. it's time to get out of town again-i was hoping to go this weekend, but this was one of two weekends that she was going to be unavailable.

so tonight is a quiet night- it quickly turned into a lord-of-the-rings-marathon night. i will probably be going sometime tomorrow to purchase the hobbit, so that i can continue it over this long weekend...which works out, as i have some other shopping that i intended to do. LOTR is such a comfort movie to me--there is something about fairy tales and the mix of evil vs good, in which the good ultimately wins out even though battles wage and sometimes make us think evil has the upper hand. i know how the story ends. and as tolkien has said, there is a eucatastrophe in every great story- the story of creation and the created...we know the ending. so why is it that the little things get to us? even the things that we consider big in our lives, really? not big.

now i need to go back and read the chronicles of narnia, because that is the other favorite-

when did fairy tales stop being a reality in my life? i want to be fascinated by nature again-i wish to see through the eyes of a child again, because i think i miss the magic around me much of the time! one of my favorite reads during a capstone class about tolkien and lewis was ORTHODOXY by gk chesterton one of my favorite quotes from said article:

G.K. Chesterton

“Because children have abounding vitality, because they are in spirit fierce and free, therefore they want things repeated and unchanged. They always say, "Do it again"; and the grown-up person does it again until he is nearly dead. For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony. It is possible that God says every morning, "Do it again" to the sun; and every evening, "Do it again" to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike; it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.”


― G.K. ChestertonOrthodoxy
back to the LOTR movie-i am in love with the soundtrack as well, it is as soothing to me as the scenery.
to have the courage and the resilience, to go with a mission-never alone, always with a host of friends to get you through and give you support. to not know what is coming next, but to know what needs to be done. i do things so differently. instead of trusting God and his plan, and following it in blind faith, i make my own plans and pray for God's blessing on them...and most of these plans are based nothing on God's purposes, but focused on my desires. i need to still my soul and do more listening and be more aware of the bigger picture. it's not about me. if i'm going to use the saying, it must resonate with my soul: NOTHING MATTERS BUT GOD. may i  always be reminded, and never forget this.
may you find the right 'fellowship' for your adventures-
julie

Friday, January 15, 2016

dressing up, dressing down, walking and pushing cars

i really should do some shopping this weekend. i have a couple of things coming up that are going to need some attention that cannot currently be found in this little apt of mine.

first up, appropriate attire for a tea party...yes, it's true. don't give me that look (shea, bmayes, trish, ally). you know i do some crazy things for my friends, chalk this up as one of those times-pics to follow, because we're talking serious business...i'm thinking of the little collectors dolls my grandma used to buy for me when i was young... i mean, one thing we all know that i do really well is dress up, although, when i talk about playing dress up, it usually looks more like this:




my best co ever!! and dear friend to date-thanks for dressing up with me in the cabin to entertain the girls!
always easy to dress up with my mentor #mindsetiseverything
lost party-so fun!

at work-airlines a little humor when we needed it most...
 pretty determined that my tea party dress-up will be nothing of the likes of any of these.

(cue ocean waves, seagulls and sunshine!)
i am also going to need to purchase a new bathing suit and some tank tops and shorts -as i am returning to florida for spring break! just booked it-- i am so ready! love it that one of the first things shea asked for was a list of some of those bucket-list items so that we could start checking some things off. this one keeps me on my toes and truly brings out the adventurer and kid in me! #childatheart pretty sure she will literally try anything once!

last night was parent teacher conference, and we were at school until 7:30- our district does not seem to have the most efficient means of setting up conferences. we should take note of how it is done more effectively elsewhere. just a thought. but hey. it's over. so this morning when i went in to update our white board in the office (which not everyone checks consistently, so hopefully they didn't miss it...), i txt admin to see if we could let staff go home right after the last students were taken care of-due to the late night, and it was so. it's the little things. and then we had a meeting at two which ran longer than expected and there i was packing up, still listening, stepping slowly back toward the door, still listening. putting my hand on the door handle, nodding, still listening...i'm not very subtle when i don't intend to be...but i did get the ok to leave and enjoy the friday afternoon. and i don't feel a bit guilty, as i am usually the earliest one on the team in the building, so i take care of the little things that come up early.

it was a gorgeous afternoon, and i really wanted to get home to take a quick walk (i mean quicker than a lord of the rings movie...seriously though, 1.22/5mile..not fast, but it did the job); i wanted to jog today because i thought my leg was feeling better, but it really wasn't-maybe need to get that checked, but not willing to yet, i'm still going to blame it on over-use and not being used to it... it was going great until i reached the shlotzky area, and there was a guy with the driver side door open, pushing his car across beltline...no one stopped to help him, so i ran over (still listening to my music), went to the back of the car and started pushing to help him out. (this seems to be a recurring event in my life...in fact about 3 times in the past two years-whenever i see someone in that situation, i always try to help, because i know that if it were me or someone i cared about, i'd want someone to help...and it's a little embarrassing, so it seems a gracious thing to do to help a body out)...so up the drive and into the shlotzky's parking lot into a car slip-not gonna lie, i was a little winded after that-using the calf muscles and quads more than i expected! great work-out. actually i felt like one of those extreme car sport people:
Image result for car pulling and pushing
what i thought i looked like...
what everyone passing by probably thought i looked like.
whatevs..i got him into the parking lot (headphones still in) and i just waved and walked away, hope he was able to get that taken care of. i felt a little like a jerk once i got out of the target parking lot, thinking i should have made sure he had a phone and could call someone, or how could i help--but i didn't have my card carrier, so i couldn't even offer to help him put gas in his car if that was what he needed-sigh.
                     
once i got home, i was going to take the boys for a walk, but they got super excited and bruno jumped from the arm of the couch and hurt his leg-dummy. anyhoo, he didn't yelp, but he was holding it funny, so i picked him up, stretched it out, moved it-range of motion-and let him kinda' walk it out inside. he makes me nervous when he does stuff like that. i should have taught them not to get on the furniture for their own sake. good grief.

the past week has been a week of being in classrooms to model. i love modeling, because it really allows me to get to know students better, and it allows me to improve my own practice. i especially enjoyed modeling in an experienced teacher's classroom-someone who is great at what she does, but had asked to see a new strategy. i can't wait to see her implement it herself with the other class and see if the kids pick up on it after repeated use. it is one of the strategies that we are doing in 4th and 5th grade and i will show it to 3rd as well so that they can be on the same page. systems are good.

next week is going to be a busy week, tuesday will involve another dentist visit. lucky me. and then more of the same...it's actually going to be a busy week without as much of a chance to be in classrooms until the end of the week (and it's a short week-which ironically usually turn out to seem much longer). boo.

and it's official, i do not want to be a giant. ever.
long weekend-enjoy it!
julie